This guy who we’ll call “J” is my best friend. I have really strong feelings for him and he likes me a lot too. I’ve been talking to him and hanging out with him for close to 6 months. We go out a couple times a week, I sleep over at his house, we mess around.
He doesn’t want a girlfriend. :smiley24:
I can deal with that I suppose, but it’s frustrating when we’ve had this kind of relationship for so long and I still have to introduce him as “my friend J” or refer to him as my friend.
It isn’t really a big deal, but I don’t understand why he doesn’t want a relationship, but he wants this.
Some history: he had a 2 year on and off girlfriend about a year ago. He doesn’t even talk to her anymore and hasn’t for close to a year. I don’t see how this could have much to do with it, but the first time I told him how I felt about him, he used her as an excuse.
What do you guys think about this? I’d like anyone’s opinion, but especially a male’s opinion because as a female I may not “know how it is”.