I am still a college kid, even at 51… but THE BEST decision I’ve EVER made was This: When I was 20 years old and had just completed 2 years of Jr. college, and dating my girlfriend for 5-6 months, she came to me one day to announce that she was pregnant!! WOW, I thought at that very critical, life-turning point in my life and being the naive person I was at the time, looking through “Rose colored glasses” and knowing I was “In Love”… As soon as she told me that news… I immediately said, “Well, we better get married then”.
I have a BIG family, I’m Catholic and I hadn’t really comes to terms at the time, that my sexual interest [s] were to come to fruition until about 3 years later, after that decision! So, My BEST decision EVER, was to to say yes to the most wonderful son in the world, my son Michael.
As tough as the next 3 years were, I can truly say looking back at my life, that I would do it ALL over again!
• Had I been more self centered, I would have pursued the actual facts (Which I was in denial of, yet found out later from my wife at the time, that she purposefully stopped taking the pill, and SHE felt guilty and ‘needed’ to tell me the truth). I’m NOT sure she did me a service by telling me the truth! lol
• Point is! THAT I made the right decision and I can now say that it was the best decision EVER!
My son Michael is 30 yrs old now, has two sons and a beautiful wife and is doing very well for himself!
I couldn’t ask for anything better!
I’m proud to be a young Grandfather too!